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Cyber-crushing on … Evelyn Perez: A Smile as Warm as Buenos Aries!

Well, my dear friends, I’ve started a new feature here at Food is Love / Fat is Freedom.   My goal, this time around, is to put the spotlight on a gorgeous feedee or gainer who I’ve encountered on the ‘net so I can tell you everything I know about her.  “Know” about her in the sense that I know a friend.

Do you get it?  I’m going to try to treat the focus of my sexual fetish as something more than an objectified piece of flesh.  Cyber Crushing is about humanizing my voyeuristic impulses.  As I’ve told you before, one thing that’s always troubled me about my obsession with things fat is that I tend to get myself worked up about women with whom I never would, and never could actually connect.  The Cyber Crush feature is my attempt to buck that miserable trend.  If I’m going to share my thoughts about a chubby chick it will be a chubby chick with whom I actually have some possibility of communicating.  My intention, in these posts, is to talk to all of you about a woman who’s genuinely captivated me, someone who’s been “staying in my mind”, someone — is there a better phrase for this? — for whom I’ve developed a “Cyber Crush”.

So, today I’m going to introduce you to my very first Cyber Crush and highlight an exquisite young lady from Argentina.  Her name is “Evelyn Perez” and she’s a fat lover’s dream.  She’s got a page on Facebook and you’ve got to figure I’m not the only one who’s noticed what a knockout she is.  For some reason, though, we’re Facebook “friends”.  Do you like the look of my pretty young “friend”?

How are you going to leave this behind?

How are you going to leave this behind?

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The Calorie Grinch

Well, thank heaven for Thanksgiving!  It’s the one time of the year when everybody gets to be a feedee and a feeder and a foodie and a grateful American all at once.  Why, oh why, can’t it be Thanksgiving every day?

I'm starting to lose my eyesight, but my appetite is better than ever!

My eyes aren’t what they used to be, but my appetite is better than ever!

We can all be sure, I suppose, that the country is fatter than it was last week but what you want to know, you curious visitor you, is how much fattening up we’ve done in the past week here at Food Is Love and Fat Is Freedom.  I suppose the answer is, “enough to be encouraged”.

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Slim By Choice

I’ve often wondered — and I’m sure this one has puzzled you from time to time — why it is that, even here in the USA, there are still a goodly number of women who are not obese.  Next time you’re out in public or in a crowd, instead of hungrily feasting your eyes on all the magnificent fat chicks who are there to keep you entertained, look around and notice that there are actually women, out there for the whole world to see, who are genuinely slender (and when I say slender I’m talking about a BMI of 25 or even less!).  And I’m not talking one or two, here, I’m talking about a significant number of seriously slim women.

I know, I know.  It's not much as muffin tops go -- but I think it could be the start of something big!  Keep your fingers crossed...

I know, I know. It’s not much as muffin tops go — but I think it could be the start of something big! Keep your fingers crossed…

What’s up with slimness?  I mean, it’s not as if we’re hurting for food here in America.  You can hardly turn around without getting the chance to grab an armload of snacks .  Yummy, decadent, high calorie, fatty food, is absolutely everywhere.   Continue reading

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Way Out Weigh-In

What did I say last week?  Ahh, here’s the very quote: “I’m going to give you ‘site stats so you can chart the page visits here at Food Is Love and Fat Is Freedom.  Stats about me, and stats about the ‘site — and you’ll get an update every Tuesday!  How cool is that?”

This damn towel adds fifteen pounds. -- No! Twenty at least.

This damn towel adds fifteen pounds. — No! Twenty at least.


I thought you didn't have to worry about calories when you're on vacation.

I thought you didn’t have to worry about calories when you’re on vacation.

What was I thinking??

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Too Fat Tuesday

Numbers.  Have you ever considered how addicted we feeders are to numbers?  Well, I certainly am.  Talk about “objectifying” a woman!  When I meet a woman, particularly a fat woman, I behave like a gentleman.  “I love your scarf!”, “Where are you from?”, “Are you working now?”, “You like sports?”, “How about music?  What bands do you like?”  Blah Blah Blah

If I tell him I weigh 115, will he think 115 POUNDS?

If I tell him I weigh 115, will he think I mean 115 POUNDS?

What do I really want to know???  I’m glad you asked!

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Obesity Paradise

The government keeps statistics which validate my point, but anyone with eyes in his head can tell  that — here in the good old USA — people are getting fatter, and fatter…

…and fatter.

No need to read the report.

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Welcome to the Club! … (the club of the unwelcome)

Never doubt that feederism is more about sex than it is about food.  It’s about sexuality and, what’s more, It’s about the kind of sexuality that most people find repulsive.  Feederism isn’t as hideous as an attraction to children; but I kind of think it’s worse than an attraction to members of the same sex.  If you come out as gay there’s sure to be a bunch of lame brains who’ll say some hateful shit; but a lot of people will be welcoming and understanding — people will even commend you for being courageous.  It don’t work like that if you’re a feeder, not these days anyway.

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Itching to Get Started

** NOTE **  If the idea of a candid discussion about masturbation grosses you out, you really should skip this post.  Forewarned is forearmed!

I was already addicted to masturbation before I realized that anyone else in the world had stumbled upon the practice.  I was addicted before I even knew the word ‘masturbation’ — or even knew that there was a word for this thing I was doing and couldn’t resist doing again, and again, and again.

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Co-occuring Disorders

If you look at it one way, I’m straight.  That is, I’m heterosexual.  In fact, I’m hopelessly, cravenly, exhaustingly heterosexual.  Nobody straighter than me!

But that’s not the whole story.  You know it and I know it.  I’m a feeder, tried and true.  That’s what gets me going.  Girls.  Fat girls.  Fat girls who love being fat.  Fat girls who love being fat and want to get fatter.  Fat girls who love being fat and want to get fatter who get turned on thinking about how much I get turned on by all things fat.

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