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Cyber-crushing on … Evelyn Perez: A Smile as Warm as Buenos Aries!

Well, my dear friends, I’ve started a new feature here at Food is Love / Fat is Freedom.   My goal, this time around, is to put the spotlight on a gorgeous feedee or gainer who I’ve encountered on the ‘net so I can tell you everything I know about her.  “Know” about her in the sense that I know a friend.

Do you get it?  I’m going to try to treat the focus of my sexual fetish as something more than an objectified piece of flesh.  Cyber Crushing is about humanizing my voyeuristic impulses.  As I’ve told you before, one thing that’s always troubled me about my obsession with things fat is that I tend to get myself worked up about women with whom I never would, and never could actually connect.  The Cyber Crush feature is my attempt to buck that miserable trend.  If I’m going to share my thoughts about a chubby chick it will be a chubby chick with whom I actually have some possibility of communicating.  My intention, in these posts, is to talk to all of you about a woman who’s genuinely captivated me, someone who’s been “staying in my mind”, someone — is there a better phrase for this? — for whom I’ve developed a “Cyber Crush”.

So, today I’m going to introduce you to my very first Cyber Crush and highlight an exquisite young lady from Argentina.  Her name is “Evelyn Perez” and she’s a fat lover’s dream.  She’s got a page on Facebook and you’ve got to figure I’m not the only one who’s noticed what a knockout she is.  For some reason, though, we’re Facebook “friends”.  Do you like the look of my pretty young “friend”?

How are you going to leave this behind?

How are you going to leave this behind?

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It’s Actually Half and Half

Let me address this post to you, the gorgeous, gorgeous, super-sexy woman who’s had an absolutely FABULOUS time over the past weeks, taking full advantage of these irresistibly fattening holidays of non-stop feasting.  Celebrate!?  You sure did!!

See what a girl can do when she puts her mind to it?

See what a girl can do when she puts her mind to it?

What a vixen you are!! You started munching on Thanksgiving Day and you’re only just now slowing down.  You’ve rocketed that daily calorie count into the stratosphere and now you’ve got the figure to show for it.  It must be so much fun, checking yourself out in the mirror every morning after your shower…

[Man!  I better cool off…]

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The Calorie Grinch

Well, thank heaven for Thanksgiving!  It’s the one time of the year when everybody gets to be a feedee and a feeder and a foodie and a grateful American all at once.  Why, oh why, can’t it be Thanksgiving every day?

I'm starting to lose my eyesight, but my appetite is better than ever!

My eyes aren’t what they used to be, but my appetite is better than ever!

We can all be sure, I suppose, that the country is fatter than it was last week but what you want to know, you curious visitor you, is how much fattening up we’ve done in the past week here at Food Is Love and Fat Is Freedom.  I suppose the answer is, “enough to be encouraged”.

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Weigh-In Today, Annual Thanksgiving Food Orgy in 48 Hours!!

Here we are again…  Checking up on me, and checking up on the ‘site stats.  The word this week is ‘up’, as both your web host and ‘site traffic have fattened up over the past seven days.

I'm in no rush, weigh-Ins should be savored.

I never rush these moments.  Weigh-Ins should be savored.

First, let’s examine the situation here on the ‘site — or, rather, let’s examine you, the visitor — and see how many of you have stopped by and let us also find out what you’re reading.

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Another Saturday Night…

OK, my dear friends, what would you do???

There’s this girl I like, let’s call her Vanessa.  That’s not what I call her IRL, because that’s not her name; but we’ll call her ‘Vanessa’ here.  OK?

I figured my hips were my best feature; but my boyfriend tells me the sexiest thing about me is my 'potential'.

I figured my hips were my best feature; but my boyfriend keeps saying it’s my ‘potential’.

So, it’s like this: I like Vanessa and she likes me.  Neither of us considers the other ‘sweetheart’ material; but she’s smart, and affectionate and fun to be with and; well, let’s put it this way: I could do a lot worse for company on a Saturday night!

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Preaching to the Fishes

Well, you never know what I’m going to do.  Or, more alarmingly, I never know what I’m going to do.  Case in point: yesterday, during my lunch break, I drove my fifty-nine year old, out-of-shape body to a local health club and purchased a twenty-eight day “guest” membership.  I’ll bet you didn’t see that coming.  I know I didn’t!

I'm only pretending to be shocked.  Actually, I'm surprised I didn't gain more!

I’m only pretending to be shocked. Actually, I’m disappointed I didn’t gain more!

We’d probably need an army of psychiatrists to get an answer to “why”; but I’ll take a stab at the “why” question right here:  You see, dear friends, I’m starting to get spooked over a chronically sore spot that’s hovering around the right part of my rib cage.

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Slim By Choice

I’ve often wondered — and I’m sure this one has puzzled you from time to time — why it is that, even here in the USA, there are still a goodly number of women who are not obese.  Next time you’re out in public or in a crowd, instead of hungrily feasting your eyes on all the magnificent fat chicks who are there to keep you entertained, look around and notice that there are actually women, out there for the whole world to see, who are genuinely slender (and when I say slender I’m talking about a BMI of 25 or even less!).  And I’m not talking one or two, here, I’m talking about a significant number of seriously slim women.

I know, I know.  It's not much as muffin tops go -- but I think it could be the start of something big!  Keep your fingers crossed...

I know, I know. It’s not much as muffin tops go — but I think it could be the start of something big! Keep your fingers crossed…

What’s up with slimness?  I mean, it’s not as if we’re hurting for food here in America.  You can hardly turn around without getting the chance to grab an armload of snacks .  Yummy, decadent, high calorie, fatty food, is absolutely everywhere.   Continue reading

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Misunderstood and Maligned

I might have been born a feeder.  I can clearly remember, at the tender age of seven, getting a boner while watching a television depiction of a woman getting fat.  I didn’t realize, at first, what a weirdo that made me.  It wasn’t until later, when I was old enough to actually talk to other males about sex, that I learned how perverted my desires are.  Imagine me as a stupid kid, innocently mentioning the thrill I get whenever I hear about female weight gain.  Imagine the reaction I got from others!  I learned pretty fast that feederism is something you keep to yourself — a lesson which, unfortunately, only serves to sentence a young man to a life of isolation and shame.  It seems to me, looking back, that if I hadn’t been a feeder I might have been a happy, popular, sexually and emotional well adjusted person.  I might even have been able to have actual relationships with actual girls.


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